Second trimester
Week 20 of pregnancy — a father's guide
The baby is the size of a banana. 20 weeks to go.
Your baby
Halfway there. The anomaly scan checks development in detail.
Your partner
Movements become more defined. The bump is showing.
What to do
Go to the 20-week scan together — bring your questions.
Practical week-20 checklist for fathers
- Plan a couples' day out — energy often returns in the second trimester.
- Start a baby budget together. Even a small monthly amount adds up.
- Research antenatal classes you can attend together.
- Be present when she takes your hand to her belly — those first kicks are the memory.
What's actually happening at week 20
Halfway there. The anomaly scan checks development in detail. For your partner: movements become more defined. the bump is showing.
A note for the father at week 20
Go to the 20-week scan together — bring your questions. Pregnancy is hard work — your steadiness is the most valuable thing you can offer this week.
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