First trimester
Week 12 of pregnancy — a father's guide
The baby is the size of a plum. 28 weeks to go.
Your baby
Reflexes develop; the baby can open and close fingers.
Your partner
The first scan (around now) is a big moment — go together if you can.
What to do
Be there for the 12-week scan. It's reassuring for you both.
Practical week-12 checklist for fathers
- Make sure folic acid is part of her daily routine.
- Book or confirm the next antenatal visit — go with her if you can.
- Cover early mornings or late nights so she can sleep through nausea and fatigue.
- Keep bland snacks and cold water within easy reach.
What's actually happening at week 12
Reflexes develop; the baby can open and close fingers. For your partner: the first scan (around now) is a big moment — go together if you can.
A note for the father at week 12
Be there for the 12-week scan. It's reassuring for you both. Pregnancy is hard work — your steadiness is the most valuable thing you can offer this week.
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